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Healing Takes Time (and That’s Okay)
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Healing Takes Time (and That’s Okay)
I wish healing had a timeline.
I wish I could circle a date on the calendar and say, “That’s when I’ll be okay again.”
But healing doesn’t work that way.
It doesn’t always show up in a breakthrough moment or a clean, upward climb. Sometimes it looks like progress one day and pain the next. Sometimes it feels like moving forward… only to fall right back into the ache.
And in those moments, it’s easy to think healing isn’t happening at all.
But it is.
God is working in the waiting.
In the deep breaths.
In the quiet nights.
In the mornings you get out of bed even when you didn’t feel like it.
Healing doesn’t always look like wholeness right away. Sometimes it looks like surviving. Sometimes it looks like sitting in silence with Jesus when you have no words left.
And guess what? That counts.
You don’t have to rush to be okay. You don’t have to pretend to be strong every day.
God is not disappointed in your pain. He’s not pacing the floor waiting for you to “get it together.”
He’s right beside you. Holding every tear. Listening to every unspoken ache.
He’s not in a hurry. He’s in it with you.
So if you’re in a season of waiting to feel whole again—emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually—just know:
You’re not behind.
You’re not broken beyond repair.
You’re simply healing.
And that’s holy ground.
Much Love & Blessings,
Ramzi
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.
E N C O U R A G E M E N T - I N - A C T I O N
Applying This Week’s Message
Family Corner
Let Grace Fill the Gaps
When you or someone in your home is in a healing season, the energy just isn’t the same. And that’s okay. This week, give your family space to feel what they feel—and grace to not have it all together.
Try this:
Share one “small win” from your day at dinner.
Celebrate it—even if it’s just “I made it through the day.”
It teaches our families that healing isn’t about pretending—it's about showing up as you are.
Relationship Insight
When You Can’t Explain the Hurt
It’s hard to love others when you're healing. It’s also hard for others to understand your healing if they can’t see the wound.
Be honest. Let someone close to you know:
“I’m not at my best right now, but I’m healing. And I’m grateful for your patience while I do.”
God often uses relationships as part of the healing process. Let people love you, even if it feels hard to receive.
Mental Health Minute
Grace Over Guilt
Healing doesn’t follow a checklist. Some days will feel productive. Others won’t. And you might be tempted to shame yourself for the pace.
But this week, choose grace:
Take a break without guilt.
Celebrate small steps.
Speak this over yourself: “I am healing, and that’s enough for today.”
The fact that you’re still here, still trying, still trusting—that’s growth.
Financial Wisdom
The Pressure to ‘Bounce Back’
If your healing involves a financial setback—medical bills, job loss, emotional burnout—give yourself permission to rebuild slowly.
God doesn’t measure your faith by your savings account.
Set one small financial goal this week (budget one category, skip one unnecessary purchase, or pray over one decision).
Invite God into your finances with the same honesty you do your heart.
You’re not failing. You’re healing. And your Provider is still providing.
Closing Inspiration
Healing is not a race. It’s a sacred process.
And you are not falling behind—you are being rebuilt.
God sees the pieces. He holds them tenderly. And in His time, He will make something whole again. Until then… just keep breathing, trusting, and letting Him carry what feels too heavy.
He’s not rushing you. He’s restoring you.
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